John Ruddy currently lives with my ex-wife, Liz Barry at 24 Field Head Place, Tettenhall, Wolverhampton. They met at work, Wolverhampton’s Royal Mail Centre, where he is a manager on the night shift.
I would give anything to be able to live with my children, and I cannot understand a man who prefers to live with someone else’s rather than his own. Just what is the attraction of living with other people’s children?
I know that he has cheated on his last 2 wives before leaving them. I know he has moved from family to family where there are children living. I know that after his night shift he spends time alone in their flat with my daughter, so I think I can guess what the attraction is. I am worried sick for her safety, yet I have no right to know anything about him. How come a father is not allowed to know about the man who is living with his children? How wrong is that!
He is lair and a cheat; someone any father would stop from coming anywhere near his children. Their mother, Liz Barry ,is also a liar and cheat. Yet these two people are allowed to live with and to influence my children with their poisonous view of relationships while I am driven out, barred from having any influence on my own children’s upbringing. For 10 years my children have been immersed in this poisonous ideology, led to believe that lying and cheating and destroying the lives of those around you is perfectly ok as long as you can get away with it. What chance do they now have of living happy lives after being brought up in such an environment?